See I told you

When was it ever helpful or useful to say ‘See I told you…’? Yet we use it all the time; even when we probably feel nothing positive about ourselves when others use it on us. That desire to be right is so strong we tend to momentarily forsake our important relationships just to feel good about being right.

Maybe, for some time, we can be more right by keeping silent. By giving the knowing nod, lending a shoulder, and showing grace.